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I found this pic when on Google image search when I was searching for something entirely different. Don't ask why this came up! Anyway it kind of illustrates the point on this post. I have no pics of new makes, because this week has been all trial-and-erroring with no finished results, so simply here is a picture of my feet.

women in black

I've been catching up on my tv viewing recently, watching a series which had been on recently, Women in Black. The premise is, that Muslim women now comprise 10% of the world’s population, yet they are seen by many as “Shapeless blobs in black.” So the programme tries to challenge that view by going underneath the veil.

My thinkings are that it didn't exactly do that. I think it's good the programme was made at all, and it probably did do something to educate or challenge some people. But it was so full of generalisations and mis-representations, and these irritating "discoveries" the presenter, Yemeni-British Amani Zain made. They kept mixing up culture and religion, presenting one as the other and missing out showing a range of women. We often saw only a minority of upper-class women, or just one's that made good tv but didn't represent a whole. There was no depth, and although I was glad to see this series was coming on, it left me frustrted. However with only five 30 minute segments, (one in Yemen, Dubai, Egypt, UK and Holland) I guess you can't do much other than scratch the surface. The worst one I thought, was the one focusing on the UK, which is weird, since the presenter and people making the programme are from here, but it was the randomest, un-representative slant on things. The presenter said she has no Asian muslim friends, and that Arab muslim females and Asian muslim females are nothing alike. Err...what?! Who on earth believes there aren't similarities between any two women, regardless of their culture. Even the title was stupid.

Anyway, you can read much more detailed and insightful reviews and commentaries here and at this great blog

This article in The Observer is also really interesting. The writer says she was asked to be in the show but then rejected for too being western and "the fairly common, non-conflicting story where cultures don't clash, but sit quietly side by side with minimal effort required, is one that never gets the limelight."

But what I mainly wanted to show was, some stills from the episode when she went to Egypt (which was in my opinion the most interesting, least dodgy portrayal of the series). She went to this hijab styling boutique and got made over by the girls working in the shop who had the most dexterous skills in wrapping, weaving and sculpting, and produced these amazing creations:








This episode also featured one of the funniest quotes I have ever heard in relation to creating logic about why something is acceptable. A plastic surgeon, (or women who ran a cosmetic surgery clinic, I can't remember) when asked about her thoughts on the view that we shouldn't tamper with out bodies as we shouldn't change what God made, replied "God created us in a most beautiful form, and we have to take care of it. I believe God created plastic surgery too, and if we dont use it, it's also a sin"

Well, if it's a sin...

I see girls...

Apparently guys are no longer content with simply making tasteless flirty comments as girls pass by in the street, now they have moved on to slowing down as they drive by, rolling down the window and blowing kisses. Yesterday I was treated to this and the guy's oh-so-witty repartee from the car window. First was the blowing kisses as they drove by, then some metres down the road they pulled over as if to park. Me being suspicious began to rummage in my bag pretending to search for keys/mobile, as I approached the car, so I would be occupied if they started. I was starting to feel a bit paranoid and stupid for being suspicious when one of them said "Hey, hey, hello, don't you believe in love at first sight?" to which his friend in the passenger seat added "Come on, don't break his heart!" Oh so romantic, how could we not fall for these so delightful advances? I was so glad I had been suspicious and didn't have to do the staring fixedly into the distance, pretending I can't hear you thing.

The thing is, I just don't get it. What's the point? What do they think they're going to get out of it? And none of my male friends do this, so what makes certain guys feel the need to? It's more the "Hey baby" etc calls that bother me than the longer more drawn out advances. At least they're trying, in a very lame way, to be constructive, and it is vaguely amusing sometimes. What's worse is the "tst-tst" / "tch-tch" noises. It sounds like you're talking to an animal, really, what is the point. The other thing I don't get is, why me? It seems to be pretty constant and yet, I don't make a special effort to dress up all pretty and femenine all the time, I don't show a lot of skin (not that that's an acceptable reason for guys to act this way, but that is what happens), and I really don't think it's that they appreciate my vintage + handmade attire. Although, that would be rather cool. I guess it just comes down to the anything with a pulse will do criteria.

I guess I am just finding it all rather tiresome. Except for one comment I heard today. As I sat down on the bus, sitting near me was a very little kid who said, "A lady! Look at the lady mummy! She got nice twirly hair!"
Twirly hair! I think it's the perfect description.